How Successful People Reach Their Goals
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How Successful People Reach Their Goals
www.anglophonie.fr page 1/4 Log on our website to check out our previous reports! How Successful People Reach Their Goals (Harvard Business Review, 2014) http://hbr.org/video/2363646220001/how-successful-people-reach-their-goals Why have you been so successful in reaching some of your goals, but not others? If you aren’t sure, you are far from alone in your confusion. The intuitive answer, that you were born predisposed to certain talents and lacking in others, is really just one very small piece of the puzzle. If fact, decades of research on achievement suggest that successful people reach their goals not simply because of who they are, but more often because of what they do. Based on my review of the research literature in psychology, here are four tips on how to set and achieve your goals. First, get specific about what you want to achieve. Also, think about the specific actions that need to be taken to reach your goal. Just promising (that) you’ll get better at responding to e-mail is too vague. Be clear and precise. I’ll acknowledge every e-mail within twenty-four hours leaves no room for doubt about what you need to do and whether or not you’ve actually done it. Second, decide where and when you’ll act on your goals. Given how busy most of us are and how many goals we are juggling at once, it’s not surprising that we routinely miss opportunities to act on a goal. Did you really have no time to work out today, no chance at any point to return that phone call? Achieving your goal means grabbing hold of these opportunities before they slip through your fingers. Again, be as specific as possible. Block out time in your calendar. For instance, you might decide that if it’s Monday, Wednesday or Friday (that) you’ll spend thirty minutes at 9 am researching new sales leads. Studies have shown that this kind of planning will help your brain detect and seize that opportunity when it arises, increasing your chances of success by roughly three hundred percent. Many of us believe that our intelligence, our personality, our physical aptitudes are fixed, that no matter what we do, we won’t improve. As a result, we focus on goals that are all about proving ourselves rather than developing and acquiring new skills. Try to shift your mindset to a “get-better” mindset instead of holding yourself to impossible standards of perfection. Finally, focus on what you will do, not what you won’t do. Research on thought suppression has shown that trying to avoid a thought makes it even more active in your mind. For instance, if I tell you not to think about white bears, then all (that) you’ll wind up thinking about is white bears. The same holds true when it comes to behaviour. By trying not to engage in a bad habit, our habits get strengthened instead of broken. If your goal is to overcome a bad habit, like losing your temper at work, focus on what you’ll do instead. For example, if you’re trying to gain control of your temper, you might make a plan like, if I’m starting to feel angry, then I will take three deep breaths to calm down. By using deep breathing as a replacement for giving in to your anger, your bad habit will get worn away over time until it disappears completely. Remember, you don’t need to become a different person to become a more successful one. It’s never what you are, but what you do. 1. 2. 3. 4. GET SPECIFIC DECIDE WHEN AND WHERE YOU’LL ACT SHIFT YOUR MINDSET FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WILL DO, NOT WHAT YOU WON’T (DO) page 2/4 Vocabulary 01. in reaching .. goals 02. you are far from alone 03. and lacking in others 04. research on achievement 05. tips 06. on how to set and achieve à atteindre, réaliser des objectifs vous êtes loin d’être seul et manquant d’autres (talents) la recherche sur les accomplissements, la réussite conseils comment fixer et atteindre (vos objectifs) 07. get specific 08. you‘ll get better 09. I’ll acknowledge 10. within 24 hours 11. whether or not 12. you’ll act on your goals 13. given how busy 14. we are juggling at once 15. we routinely miss opportunities 16. to work out 17. no chance at any point 18. means grabbing hold soyez précis vous vous améliorerez j’accuserai réception dans les 24 heures si oui ou non nous jonglons en même temps nous ratons régulièrement faire du sport, de l’exercice physique pas l’occasion à aucun moment signifie saisir 19. before they slip through your fingers avant qu’elles ne vous glissent entre les doigts 20. block out time 21. for instance 22. sales leads 23. when it arises 24. by roughly 300% 25. no matter what we do 26. as a result 27. try to shift your mindset 28. a “get-better” mindset 29. instead of holding yourself 30. bears 31. you’ll wind up thinking 32. holds true 33. when it comes 34. get strengthened 35. instead of broken 36. overcome a bad habit 37. like losing your temper 38. take three deep breaths 39. to calm down 40. to give in to anger 41. will get worn away 42. over time réservez du temps par exemple des tuyaux pour vendre lorsqu’elle se présente par à peu près 300% peu importe ce que nous faisons par conséquent essayez de changer votre façon de penser un désir de s’améliorer au lieu de vous imposer des ours vous allez finir par penser est vrai quand il s’agit de se renforcent au lieu de se casser / se défaire surmonter, éliminer comme perdre son sang froid inspirer 3 fois profondément se calmer céder à sa colère, se mettre en colère sera “usé” = partira petit à petit avec le temps vous allez réaliser/exécuter vos objectifs vu à quel point nous sommes occupés page 3/4 How Successful People Reach Their Goals Exercise: fill in the blanks with the correct words Why have you been so successful in _r______________ some of your _g____________, but not others? atteindre objectifs If you aren’t sure, you are far from alone in your confusion. The intuitive answer, that you were born predisposed to certain talents and _l__________i_____ others, is really just one very small piece of the manquant d’(autres) puzzle. If fact, decades of research on _a___________________suggest that successful people reach accomplissement, réussite their goals not simply because of who they are, but more often because of what they do. Based on my review of the research literature in psychology, here are four _t________ on how to conseils _s________ and _a____________ your goal. fixer atteindre First, _g_______s___________ about what you want to achieve. Also, think about the specific actions soyez précis that need to be taken to reach your goals. Just promising (that) you’ll _g_______b____________ at (vous) améliorerez responding to e-mail is too vague. Be clear and precise. I’ll _a________________ every e-mail (j’) accuserai réception _w_____________ twenty-four hours leaves no room for doubt about what you need to do and dans (les) _w_____________o____n_______ you’ve actually done it. si oui ou non Second, decide where and when you’ll _a________o______ your goals. Given how busy most of us (vous allez) réaliser / exécuter are and how many goals we _a______j_________ _a____o________, it’s not surprising that we routinely jonglons en même temps miss opportunities to act on a goal. Did you really have no time to _w______o_____ today, no chance faire du sport / de l’exercice physique _a____a_____p_______ to return that phone call? à aucun moment Achieving your goal means _g___________h_______o____ these opportunities before they slip through saisir your fingers. Again, be as specific as possible. _B_______o_____t________ in your calendar. réservez _F______i______________, you might decide that if it’s Monday, Wednesday or Friday (that) you’ll par exemple spend thirty minutes at 9 am researching new sales leads. Studies have shown that this kind of planning will help your brain detect and seize that opportunity when it _a______________, increasing your chances of success _b______r_____________ three hundred se présente par à peu près percent. Many of us believe that our intelligence, our personality, our physical aptitudes are fixed, that _w_________________ what we do, we won’t improve. _A_____a_r____________, we focus on goals peu importe Par conséquent that are all about proving ourselves rather than developing and acquiring new skills. _T_____to_s______your_m_________ to a “get-better” mindset instead of _h________y_____________ Essayez de changer votre façon de penser to impossible standards of perfection. (de) vous imposer page 4/4 Finally, focus on what you will do, not what you won’t do. Research on thought suppression has shown that trying to avoid a thought makes it even more active in your mind. For instance, if I tell you not to think about white bears, then all (that) you will _w_________u____t_________________ about is white (vous) allez finir par penser bears. The same _h________t_______ _w_______i___c________t____ behaviour. By trying not to engage in est vrai quand il s’agit de a bad habit, our habits _g______s_______________ instead of broken. If your goal is to _o___________ se renforcent surmonter, éliminer a bad habit, like _l_________y_______t____________ at work, focus on what you’ll do instead. perdre votre sang froid For example, if you’re trying to gain control of your temper, you might make a plan like, if I’m starting to feel angry, then I will take three _d___________b_____________to _c_________d_______. By using profondes inspirations (me) calmer deep breathing as a replacement for _g__________i__________to your anger, your bad habit will get céder worn away _o________t__________ until it disappears completely. avec le temps Remember, you don’t need to become a different person to become a more successful one. It’s never what you are, but what you do.