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THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. PRE-BOOTCAMP PREPARATION PACKAGE STOP! If you have not printed out the REQUIRED FORMS, do NOT proceed until you have PRINTED, SIGNED, AND DATED the required forms! Welcome to the ABCs of Attraction! We’re glad you’re with us and chose ABCs of Attraction to help you get your dating life in order. In this package, there are several homework exercises, fashion tips, and more that are not required, but HIGHLY RECOMMENDED that you complete BEFORE your bootcamp. After all, you are paying over $1000, so we want you to get the most out of the bootcamp. One of the biggest regrets I hear from students is that they didn’t quite prepare for the bootcamp. Often times they say, “I wish I prepared more for my bootcamp!” This is what this guide is for. This guide is a concrete, step-by-step, no BS framework that will get you ready for your bootcamp as long as you follow EXACTLY what this guide says to do. Will it be difficult? Not terribly, but it will get you in the right state of mind and get lots of the nitty-gritty stuff out of the way so myself and all of my staff can concentrate on the most important part of this program: YOU. While this homework is great to do, don’t feel that it’s absolutely necessary. You won’t be totally lost in lecture if you just don’t have time to do it (guys signed up last minute). Just follow instructions, try hard, give it your all, and have an open mind. You’ll be just fine Although not required, I highly recommend you print out this guide and physically WRITE DOWN on these sheets your answers and results. If you want immediate feedback from our everexpanding network of alumni and our community managers, post your results and questions on www.abcsofattraction.com/community - we’ll be more than happy to answer your questions and get you on the right track! Again, thanks for choosing ABCs of Attraction. We’re glad you’re here! JT Tran, CEO and Founder CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. SUIT UP! WHAT TO WEAR 1. Fashionable, collared shirt (NO SHORT-SLEEVES!) 2. Trendy jeans, slim straight, straight boot cut, darker color a. OR – Well fitted slacks. NO BAGGY PANTS 3. Shined black or brown shoes (NO TENNIS SHOES). a. Shoes should match color of belt 4. Avoid undershirts (unless you’re really sweaty) 5. NO BAGGY CLOTHES, NO WRINKLED CLOTHES a. Irons and tailors are your friend, if anything, FIT is the most important part of an outfit. b. If you have a nice shirt, get it tailored – very cheap to get custom tailoring 6. Clean undergarments 7. Some jewelry – watches, necklaces, bracelets, but not too much! FORMULA FOR A STELLAR OUTFIT Collared, button down shirt (Any color) Slim straight, boot-cut, or skinny jeans (darker color, if not black) OR well fitted slacks Blazer jacket OR Vest (Black, or neutral color Tie (should match shirt, can be accessory color) Color Cordination Warm colors: Red, Orange, Yellow, (and all shades) Cool colors: Blue, Green, Purple (and all shades) Neutral colors: Black, brown, white, grey Match Warm to warm, cool to cool. Neutral colors accent warm and/or cool colors *Aim for 1 Warm OR Cool color, 1 Neutral color, and 1 Accessory color. TAKING CARE OF YOU 1. “Asian Flush” syndrome – i.e face gets extremely red when drinking alcohol a. SOLUTION – take Maximum Strength Pepcid AC 30 minutes before drinking. Voila! No more Asian Flush! 2. Hair and Skin CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. 1. 2. 3. 4. a. DO NOT USE GEL OR MOOSE i. You want girls to run their fingers through SOFT Asian hair, not spiky! ii. Use Pomade, wax, or styling clay (Redkin Rewind is Ben J’s favorite, $27) b. NO CHILI BOWL HAIRCUT i. Go get yourself a real $40 PROFESSIONAL haircut c. Shave or trim facial hair d. Trim overgrown nose hair e. If you’re pale, GET A TAN! i. INCLUDES ASIANS ii. Pale, glow in the dark Asian men aren’t attractive f. Wash your face (2x a day) i. Use moisturizer (Oil of Olay works best) ii. Get rid of acne Proactiv works great, but expensive Clearasil is cheaper, but works well too g. General Skincare i. After a warm shower, use moisturizer on your body ii. Avoid eating oily foods in excess iii. For showers, Oil of Olay Ultra Moisture body wash w/ shea butter works amazing. Ben J has been complimented for incredible skin, and has gotten mucho pussy because of it. iv. Applying petroleum jelly to hands and feet before bed will soften hands and soothe feet. General Hygiene a. Shower before going out – wash hair with shampoo AND conditioner b. Brush AND floss teeth c. Wear cologne i. Christopher Dior Fahrenheit is APB Approved, ii. Lowest level of cologne acceptable is Axe body spray d. Use Deodorant e. Clip fingernails and toe nails If you wear glasses… a. Wear cool, non-nerdy glasses b. OR – go to your eye doctor and get non-colored contacts (NO blue-eyed Asians!) GEAR FOR THE FIELD 1. Condoms!!! (Crown is the best, seriously!) 2. $100+ in cash (BRING $100+ FOR EVERY NIGHT INFIELD!!!!) a. Club cover b. Bribes (just in case!) CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. c. Drinks d. Taxi fare when you pull to her place 21+ Valid ID Credit card (for emergencies) Cell Phone (with texting capabilities/plan) Directions to the venue Directions to the nearest hotel for quick pull a. iPhone and Android users get an app called HotelTonight – gives 3 hotels at amazing prices, gotten alums laid plenty of times! Digital Camera (optional, iPhone camera works well too) Mints (sugar free if possible) Lighter (even for non-smokers) a. Disposable Bic lighter is OK, but REAL gentlemen carry Zippos (lighter mandatory, Zippo optional) – Make sure Zippo has fuel! Cologne (keep in car) Sleepover bag (in the trunk) for one night stands Visine (for contacts guys) Maximum Strength Pepcid AC (for you Asian Flush guys!) CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. HOMEWORK # 1 The Canned Opener WHAT IS A CANNED OPENER? A canned opener is a routine/line used by Pick-Up-Artists use in order to begin conversation with a target and/or the target’s group. We here at ABCs of Attraction KNOW that the following openers WORK, as myself and my staff have tested these openers all around the world. These openers are structured, and pre-written, and we teach these exact same openers at every bootcamp. Keep in mind that canned openers are training wheels. We don’t want you to depend on them for the rest of your life, but we do want you to use them so you become more comfortable opening! The openers we teach are: The Kickstart “I love you” opener Tuxedo Jacket Ken and Barbie YOU MUST MEMORIZE THE KICKSTART OPENER AND ONE OTHER OPENER OF YOUR CHOICE The Kickstart: “Cheers! (raise glass, or hand) My name’s ****, what’s yours? Well (girl’s name), you seem friendly. My friends and I are celebrating my friend Sarah’s/JT’s/Gareth’s birthday. Don’t be a stranger, stop by and say hello.” You will be using the kickstart opener quite a bit during your bootcamp. MAKE SURE you memorize it! Failure to memorize the kickstart will slow down your learning curve. “I Love You” You: Hey, quick question, what does it mean when a girl says, “I” “LOVE” “YOU,”* but only over text message? Girl: (response) CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. You: Ahh ok, the reason I’m asking is that it’s actually happening to my friend right over there, and he’s only been dating this girl for 2 WEEKS. Girl: (response) You: Yeah, I told him not to worry about it until she tattoo’s his name on her ass. *With the I-LOVE-YOU part, emphasize the I LOVE YOU. Tuxedo Jacket You: Quick question, is it OK to wear jeans to a wedding? Girl: No! You: I see, the reason I’m asking is because my friend flew in today for a wedding and the airline lost his luggage. All he has is some dark jeans and a really nice black blazer. Do you think that will work? Girl: (response) You: *Transition to talk about weddings, fashion, airlines, marriage, etc.* Ken and Barbie You: Quick question, why do you think girlfriends are always trying to change the way their boyfriends dress? Girl: (response) You: Here’s why I’m asking, you see that guy over there? *point to well dressed ABCs instructor or wing* Girl: Yes? You: He’s actually dating this girl named BARBIE, right? They’ve been dating for less than a month and she’s trying to get him to change the way he dresses. But get this… She’s going for the preppy look with pink polo shirts and popped collar. (PLAYFUL EXASPERATION AND TEASING IN YOUR VOICE) Girl: (response) You: But let me ask you, does HE look like A KEN DOLL to you? *With this opener, make sure you are emphasizing the UPPERCASE words. CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. HOMEWORK #2 Managing Approach Anxiety APPROACH ANXIETY (AA) On a scale of 1to 10, 1 being completely normal and 10 breaking down and crying in the corner of a club, what is your Approach Anxiety like? _______ For your ABCs of Attraction bootcamp, we want you to get this number down to at LEAST a 7. However, you will learn MUCH MORE if you can get your AA down to less than 4. YOUR MISSION: Approach 30 women a week until your AA comes down a. You can practice your canned openers if you choose to(extra credit), but just approaching and saying “hello” works just as well b. This equates to a little less than 5 women/day c. Do not be afraid of rejection – rejection happens to everyone! d. Chatting up hired guns, bartenders, waitresses counts e. Chatting up strippers does not count f. Post your results on the ABCs of Attraction forum (www.abcsofattraction.com/community) i. Any feedback from your approaches will be looked at by our coaches and staff. g. Keep track of your approaches! Use the log sheet on the next page to track your approaches! CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. APPROACH LOGSHEET Sun Mon Tues Wed Thurs Fri Sat TOTAL AA(110) end of week 4 7 2 0 3 6 8 30/30 4/10 /30 /10 # of Approaches /30 /10 # of Approaches /30 /10 # of Approaches EXAMPLE # of Approaches TELL US WHAT’S HAPPENING! http://www.abcsofattraction.com/community CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. HOMEWORK #3 ATTRACTION SWITCH STORIES PASSIVE VS ACTIVE VALUE There’s a 2 types of value being perceived when women look at men. PASSIVE VALUE is what was discussed in the “Suit Up!” section of the guide. Passive value is everything that happens before you open your mouth, from physical attraction to hygiene and dress. ACTIVE VALUE is a mixture of what/how you’re saying stuff and your mannerism/gestures. In order to generate attraction, we have Attraction Switch Stories that we use in field while we are in comfort with a lovely lady of our choice. In the program, you will be EXPECTED to have a story ready to tell our instructors. Depending on how the instructors see fit, we will have you tell us ONE attraction switch story. Attraction Switch Stories are short, 1-2 minute stories about your life that convey your best personality and lifestyle. One of my favorite stories I like to tell is how my Mom told me it’s OK to date white girls when we were slap happy drunk in Vietnam, which shows that I’m close to my mother. Another story I know one of my coaches likes to tell is of his Scuba diving trips in Thailand and how he loves traveling and exploring new places. These short little snippets show a someone more about you and make you seem, “more than meets the eye.” KEYWORD LINKS Keyword links are words that can trigger the beginning of an attraction switch story. If you have a story about how you and your mother got drunk in Vietnam and talked about dating white girls, good keyword links would be: Mother White girls Vietnam Got really drunk Family Dating Anytime a girl brings up one of these words in conversation, we can easily transition to the story by saying: “Speaking of Vietnam (Keyword Link!), my mother and I got really drunk at a bar one night and…” CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. TYPES OF STORIES Funny – Self explanatory, the story is simply a silly recollection of something that happened with a friend, girlfriend, etc. Think outrageous frat-boy stories. Vulnerable – A vulnerability story talks about your own weaknesses as a man. EVERYONE has their own insecurities in their lives, but by having faults, it doesn’t seem like you’re a superman. Ex: Your 8 year old niece tripped and broke her leg, so you called 911 to get an ambulance to her and you were so worried about her for the rest of the day. Achievement – Running races, getting job promotions, any sort of achievement (not Xbox) or award that you worked your ass off for applies to this category. Moral/Educational – These stories end in some sort of paradigm shift or “A-Ha!” moment, like learning how to do CPR on someone in real life, or making a splint for a broken bone. YOUR ASSIGNMENT WRITE DOWN as many attraction switch stories as possible. If you are having trouble thinking of attraction switch stories, then make a mental note of it. If you’re having trouble coming up with a story for a certain attraction switch, this means that you are missing that particular fragment of lifestyle. We advise you to adventure out and attempt to fill in the void GUIDELINES *Write an actual story about YOU, not just a description of something *Be as honest as possible. You may embellish and/or omit negative details, but don’t get too crazy and throw in ninjas or exploding helicopters. *Convey the best side of your life and personality, put your best foot forward! *Concentrate on using visual and emotional word usage *Tell stories that are fun, intriguing, and GIRL/EMOTIONALLY REVELANT *Decide what TYPE of attraction switch you want it to be (Funny, Vulnerable, Achievement, or Moral/Educational *Make sure 2 to 5 stories are high energy, upbeat, and/or funny *Identify your keyword links CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. ATTRACTION SWITCHES *Pre-Selected by Women Without bragging or trying too hard, you let it be known that you have been romantically/sexually involved with women of high quality, beauty, and status. You have female friends and you are, more importantly, good in bed. Think romantic or sexual stories without being obvious. Jealousy plotlines also fall under this category. Examples: First kiss, Interesting Valentine/date/sexual encounter, Model/stripper ex-girlfriend (don’t brag!), Jealousy Plotline LINKS 1._________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ 3._________________________________4. ___________________________________ 5.__________________________________ FUNNY VULNERABLE TYPE (CIRCLE ONE) ACHIEVEMENT MORAL/EDUCATIONAL _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. *Man of Action You have the confidence and experience to lead groups of people to achieve success and withstand adversity, hardship, and challenges. You are also humble enough to know that success comes by standing on the shoulder of giants. You take calculated risks for maximum gain, build up other people, and have the alpha-like confidence of a natural leader people WANT to follow. You take ACTION when required and have the COURAGE to do so. Examples: Organizing an important event, taking charge of a critical situation, public speaking, operating with grace under fire, LINKS 1._________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ 3._________________________________4. ___________________________________ 5.__________________________________ FUNNY VULNERABLE TYPE (CIRCLE ONE) ACHIEVEMENT MORAL/EDUCATIONAL _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. *Protector of Love Ones – Emotionally, Physically, and/or Financially There are three subcategories that include Emotional Protection, Financial Protection, and Physical Protection. Emotional/Financial are easily abused by user type women so tread carefully, but they are good for creating a connection. If you are short or of light physique, conveying Physical Protection is even more essential. While women are attracted to men of height/muscle, the REAL underlying female need is: CAN YOU PHYSICALLY PROTECT HER FROM AGGRESSORS? Examples: Taking care of your family’s needs, getting into a fight to protect someone, learning (practical) martial arts, Military/police/fireman/medical experience, comforting someone when they’ve lost a loved one LINKS 1._________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ 3._________________________________4. ___________________________________ 5.__________________________________ FUNNY VULNERABLE TYPE (CIRCLE ONE) ACHIEVEMENT MORAL/EDUCATIONAL _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. *Passions You are more than just your job. You have an active lifestyle that involves the finer things in life, adventure, fun, culture, education, etc. AND YOU ENJOY IT! These passionate activities should be Replication Value type hobbies that convey things like: artistic ability, writing, high (not nerdy) intelligence, musical ability, and physically exciting pursuits. Examples: Interesting hobbies (not stamp collecting!), Artistic/musical/intellectual passions like painting, playing in a band, or writing a novel, physical/dangerous/risky yet exciting pursuits like surfing, skydiving, motorcycles, etc. Having a unique high status lifestyle, having a zest and LOVE of life. LINKS 1._________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ 3._________________________________4. ___________________________________ 5.__________________________________ FUNNY VULNERABLE TYPE (CIRCLE ONE) ACHIEVEMENT MORAL/EDUCATIONAL _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. *Financial Status People define and package you based off of what you say you do. And in general, women judge each others’ pecking order through their men’s status, position, importance, prestige, visibility, risk, car, house, luxuries, and- of course- how much money he makes. Even if it’s not well paying, it’s still better to be of high status in your field versus being mediocre and average. Try to throw in both Survival Value and Replication Value into your occupation IF you can. Examples: Being good at what you do, having a unique or interesting job, high pay/status occupation, owning your own business, avoiding gold diggers LINKS 1._________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ 3._________________________________4. ___________________________________ 5.__________________________________ FUNNY VULNERABLE TYPE (CIRCLE ONE) ACHIEVEMENT MORAL/EDUCATIONAL _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. *Future Ambitions If you aren’t established and wealthy, you still have plans to better yourself. As a man, you are still a hunter, but in this case of hunter for a better lifestyle for yourself and your family and woman. Bring her on a make believe, role playing, future projection ride of how you intend to better yourself and how SHE could be involved if she qualifies. Examples: How you want to improve yourself, not being content with mediocrity, plans for the future, dreams of starting up your own business or buying a jet. LINKS 1._________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ 3._________________________________4. ___________________________________ 5.__________________________________ FUNNY VULNERABLE TYPE (CIRCLE ONE) ACHIEVEMENT MORAL/EDUCATIONAL _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. *Sense of Humor It’s a common truism that women are attracted to men with a sharp wit and sense of humor. In a night venue setting, however, subtle humor is lost amidst all the other distractions and music. Exaggerate a little to the point of absurdity to make your point and tickle her funny bone. Examples: Something funny that happened to you or a friend, something hilarious on TV or in real life, observational humor, funny comparisons of different things (males and females). AVOID JOKES, use cocky and funny teasing and banter. LINKS 1._________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ 3._________________________________4. ___________________________________ 5.__________________________________ FUNNY VULNERABLE TYPE (CIRCLE ONE) ACHIEVEMENT MORAL/EDUCATIONAL _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. *Outrageous/Energetic/Playful Like a Sense of Humor Attraction Switch story, but amped up even more. This is something really out there in material (gross, unbelievable, ridiculous) or conveyed with incredible high energy that makes her energetic (and thus non-logical) as well. Examples: Crazy frat-boy type college stories, times when you (don’t actually say it was you) saw/did something disgusting, act out an event/story that was both physical and fun/exciting/crazy, outrageous comments that could include overtly sexual, opinionated, energetic, rude, exaggerated, asshole-esque, and even disgusting. LINKS 1._________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ 3._________________________________4. ___________________________________ 5.__________________________________ FUNNY VULNERABLE TYPE (CIRCLE ONE) ACHIEVEMENT MORAL/EDUCATIONAL _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. *Experienced Man You’ve traveled the world, been to exotic places, stood on the tallest mountains, and done things mere mortals dare not do. Or maybe you know how to dance really well, or know music like the back of your hand, or understand art as only a master connoisseur can. Whatever your area of experience, show you that you are the older man, the teacher, and she is the younger woman, the student. Examples: Pick something you’re good at and know well (avoid boring subjects like computer programming and accounting), teach her how to salsa dance, teach her different cultures and/or languages, if you’re a minority, share a piece of your culture with her in an interesting and open minded manner. LINKS 1._________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ 3._________________________________4. ___________________________________ 5.__________________________________ FUNNY VULNERABLE TYPE (CIRCLE ONE) ACHIEVEMENT MORAL/EDUCATIONAL _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. *Sexual Safety with Women You are a sexual man but you are NOT needy, horny, or a man-whore. NEITHER are you dangerous, shady, or likely to drug or date rape her. Women are conscious of the dangers men present as well as the infinite number of horny men that pathetically vie for her attention. Be neither. Examples: A close female friend got wasted, hit on you, but you knew it would be a bad decision so you gracefully refused, your own female stalker, times a girl took advantage of you, taking girls home or to a hotel and treating them right, closeness with mom/sister(s) LINKS 1._________________________________ 2. ___________________________________ 3._________________________________4. ___________________________________ 5.__________________________________ FUNNY VULNERABLE TYPE (CIRCLE ONE) ACHIEVEMENT MORAL/EDUCATIONAL _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. EXTRA CREDIT For those of you who REALLY want to take your bootcamp to the next level, we have a list of recommended books and DVDs/CDs that you can check out. Keep in mind all of the following material is OPTIONAL and we are not expecting you to buy all of this stuff. RECOMMENDED PRODUCTS * Savoy's Ebook "Magic Bullets" - Outer Game Development (Review) RECOMMENDED READING Seduction * The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed by Mystery, Lovedrop, and Neil Strauss * The Layguide: How to Seduce Women More Beautiful Than You Ever Dreamed Possible No Matter What You Look Like or How Much You Make by Tony Clink * The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss Art of Seduction by Robert Greene How to Date a White Woman: A Practical Guide for Asian Men by Adam Quan * I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell by Tucker Max The Complete A**hole's Guide to Handling Chicks by Dan Indante Behavioral Science * Are Men Necessary?: When Sexes Collide by Maureen Dowd * Reading People: How to Understand People and Predict Their Behavior- -Anytime, Anyplace by Jo-Ellan Dimitrius, Ph.D. Get Anyone to Do Anything: Never Feel Powerless Again--With Psychological Secrets to Control and Influence Every Situation by David J. Lieberman Superiority Through Wealth * Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money--That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. * The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas J. Stanley, Ph.D. * The Millionaire Mind by Thomas J. Stanley, Ph.D. Motivational Unlimited Power by Anthony Robbins Asian Identity The Accidental Asian: Notes of a Native Speaker by Eric Liu Eagle: The Making Of An Asian-American President, Volume 1 (Eagle) The Japanese Through American Eyes by Sheila K. Johnson African American Views of the Japanese: Solidarity or Sedition? (Suny Series, Global Conflict and Peace Education) by Reginald Kearney Bridge to the Sun by Gwen Terasaki Health, Fitness & Skin Care * The Acne Cure by Terry J. Dubrow Beautiful Skin of Color: A Comprehensive Guide to Asian, Olive, and Dark Skin by Jeanine Downie * The New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding: The Bible of Bodybuilding, Fully Updated and Revised by Arnold Schwarzenegger RECOMMENDED DVDs/CDs Romantic Asian Male/White Female Anna and the King (Full-Screen Edition) * Dragon: The Bruce Lee Story Romantic Asian Male/Asian Female In the Mood for Love - Criterion Collection Erotic (non-pornographic) Asian Male/White Female Women of the Night * The Lover Emmanuelle (Finale scene AM/WF) CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. Emmanuelle in Space: A World of Desire (AM/2WF threesome scene) Humor Asian Male/White Female Mighty Peking Man * NOTE: Asterisk mark a "must have" item in my opinion.* CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. If you do decide to go out before your boot camp and want some extra Tender Lovin’ Care from the ABCs of Attraction team, go to our forum at: http://www.abcsofattraction.com/community SEE ASIAN PLAYBOY IN ACTION! We’ve got a HOT video for you, where JT Tran kiss closes a tall gorgeous blonde in LESS THAN FIVE MINUTES. We’ve broken it down into an NFL play-by-play style video so you can understand EXACTLY what JT’s doing to get this girl ALL OVER his nuts. Watch the video and read the blog at: http://www.abcsofattraction.com/blog/free-training/video-evidence/ Complete as much of this guide as possible and enjoy the process. We’re looking forward to having you at your ABCs of Attraction Program! From all of us at ABCs of Attraction, JT Tran P.S – Check out our official ABCs of Attraction products on the next pages! CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. BONUS – Official ABCs of Attraction Flagship Products Modern Asian Man "Modern Asian Man: Guide to Complete Social Success" is the definitive reference guide to understanding the complexities of the modern day dating scene. Complete with tips, strategies, and tons of material you can use right away, this essential handbook will give you all the information you need to take complete control of your romantic destiny. "Modern Asian Man: Guide to Complete Social Success" is the absolute blueprint and foundation you need to gain a keen understanding of social dynamics, relationships, and self-actualization. At a whopping 200+ pages, this is a reference you will read and re-read as you continue to improve and transform yourself into the man you know you can and want to be. CONFIDENTIAL – DO NOT DISTRIBUTE THE ABCs OF ATTRACTION Copyright 2012 by APB Productions Inc. Practical Day Game Does going out to a bar bore you? Are you tired of talking to silly club clubs? 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