child and youth abuse

CHILD AND YOUTH ABUSE /
L’ABUS
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ressources familiales Kaitlin Atkinson
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General Works / Information générale
Breaking the silence: a guide to help children with complicated grief - suicide, homicide, AIDS,
violence, and abuse / Goldman, Linda -- New York: Taylor & Francis, 2001.
This book is a resource for parents, caregivers and children dealing with the complex facets of
grief. It provides methods to help initiate discussions as well as tools to help children understand
and deal with their feelings.
FAM BF 575 .G7 G64 2001
Healing the bruises / Morgan, Lori. -- Halifax: Formac Publishing Company Limited, 2013.
In graphic novel format, this book makes the experience of searching for and restoring peace in a
troubled family both understandable and positive.
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Parenting 911: how to safeguard and rescue your 10-to-15 year-old from substance abuse, sexual
encounters, and other risky situations / Giannetti, Charlene C. -- New York: Broadway Books,
1999.
This guide brings parents the information and reassurance they need to identify and handle crises
that can erupt even in the best of homes.
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Physical Abuse / Abus physique
Broken children, grown up pain / Hegstrom, Paul -- Kansas City, MO: Beacon Hill Press, 2001.
By using research, psychological studies, and biblical principles the author points the reader to the
place of healing where they are finally free to pursue authentic relationships and build healthy
emotional intimacy with others.
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A child called it: one child's courage to survive / Pelzer, David. -- Deerfield Beach, FL: Health
communications, Inc., 1995.
This book covers the early years of the author’s life and is an affecting and inspirational book of
the horrors of child abuse and the steadfast determination of one child to survive.
FAM HV 6626.5 .C2 P45 1993
Co-dependent no more: how to stop controlling others and start caring for yourself / Beattie, Melody
-- Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1992.
Helps the reader to understand co-dependency and keys to unlocking it hold on your life instructive life stories, personal reflections, exercises, self-test -inspirational and straightforward.
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Sexual Abuse / Abus sexuel
Beginning to heal: a first book for survivors of child sexual abuse / Bass, Ellen -- New York: Harper
Perennial, 1993.
A book on healing after sexual abuse and tips on starting a healthier journey.
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Ça arrive aussi aux garçons: l'abus sexuel au masculin / Dorais, Michel. -- Montréal, QC: Éditions
Typo, 2008.
Michel Dorais donne les victimes une voix, fournissant une analyse sensible de leurs
traumatismes et auto-questionnement, et offrant des stratégies pour y faire face. Il examine les
effets de la violence sexuelle sur la vie affective et sexuelle des hommes, y compris leur estime de
soi et leurs relations personnelles.
FAM HV 6570 .D67 2008
Don't tell: the sexual abuse of boys / Dorais, Michel -- Montreal & Kingston: McGill-Queen's University
Press, 2002.
Michel Dorais gives the victims a voice, providing a sensitive analysis of their traumas and selfquestioning, and offering strategies for coping. It examines the effects of sexual abuse on the
emotional and sexual life of men, including their sense of self and their personal relationships.
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Eagle child / Montour, Sandra J. -- Ohsweken, ON: Ganohkwa Sra Family Assault Support Services,
1992.
This story illustrates how two native children came to their own understanding of sexual abuse
under the guidance of their wise and loving grandmother. Appropriate for ages 5-10 years.
FAM E 98 .C5 B1 1992
Eagle child: book 2 / Montour, Sandra J. -- Ohsweken, ON: Ganohkwa Sra Publications, 1993.
A wise and loving grandmother gently guides two Native children to their own understanding of
one possible effect of sexual abuse: "acting out behaviour". Appropriate for ages 5-10 years.
FAM E 98 .C5 B2 1993
Eagle child: book 3 / Montour, Sandra J. -- Ohsweken, ON: Ganohkwa Sra Publications, 1994.
A wise and understanding grandmother gently guides her Native grandson to his own
understanding of a vital element necessary for the treatment of sexual abuse: "trust".
Appropriate for ages 5-10 years.
FAM E 98 .C5 B3 1994
Eagle child: book 4 / Montour, Sandra J. -- Ohsweken, ON: Ganohkwa Sra Publications, 1995.
A wise and loving grandmother gently guides her native grandchildren to their own understanding
of two vital elements involved in the treatment process of sexual abuse: empowerment and
determination. Appropriate for Ages 5-10 years.
FAM E 98 .C5 B4 1995
L'enfant victime d'agression sexuelle / Saint-Pierre, Frédérique. -- Montréal: Éditions du CHU SainteJustine, 2007.
Les agressions sexuelles sur les enfants ne laissent personne indifférent. Il s'agit de situations
auxquelles il est difficile de faire face, car elles soulèvent beaucoup d'émotions et de
questionnements, tant chez les adultes que chez les enfants. En fait, peu de drames humains sont
aussi complexes. Sont décrits et expliqués les impacts d'une agression sexuelle, les réactions de
l'enfant et de sa famille, le dévoilement, l'intervention médicale et psychothérapeutique, l'allégation
d'agression sexuelle en contexte de séparation, les agressions sur les enfants handicapés, les
démarches à faire en cas d'agression ainsi que les programmes de prévention.
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Helping mothers move forward: a workbook to help provide assessment and support to the safe
carers of children who have been sexually abused / Regan, Lynda -- Dorset UK: Russell
House Publishing Ltd, 2006.
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Offering tried and tested approaches for work with safe carers of children who have been sexually
abused - principally but not exclusively mothers - this workbook allows you to adapt and evolve its
framework during both the investigative and recovery stages of their individual experiences,
including: understanding the carer's position and creating a supportive environment; providing a
framework for the carer to understand sexual abuse; helping the carer to consider these issues in
relation to their own situation; and addressing the future including consideration of issues around
safe care - especially if a family wants to consider reunification.
FAM HV 6570.2 R43 2006
If your child is abused...: a guide for parents of children sexually abused by someone outside the
family / Ensom, Ron -- Ottawa: OCCCCA, 1994.
This is a book on how to care for a sexually abused child. It provides tips on who to tell, what to do
to make sure your child is ok, and in-depth looks at the process following the abuse.
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It's my body / Freeman, Lory-- Seattle, WA: Parenting Press, 1994.
This is an easy to read book about when to share your body and when not to. It talks about how
you should feel when you share your body with consent, and how you feel when you do not want
to share your body, or feel uncomfortable. Also includes key phrases in stopping someone from
touching you when you don't want to.
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Invisible girls: the truth about sexual abuse / Feuereisen, Patti -- Emeryville, CA: Seal Press, 2005.
Invisible Girls weaves together powerful first-person narratives with gentle guidance and seasoned
insights to help girls through the maze of feelings that swirl around the abuse experience. This
gives every young woman who struggles with the scars of sexual abuse the courage that comes
from knowing that she is not alone, while other girls come out from behind the veil of secrecy to
become vibrant, healthy, and whole.
FAM HV 6592 .F48 2005
Te laisse pas faire! les abus sexuels expliques aux enfants / Robert, Jocelyne. -- Montréal: Éditions de
l'Homme, 2005.
Cet ouvrage propose des jeux et des exercices à faire avec l'enfant, présente des indices pour
évaluer les risques, suggère des attitudes éducatives sereines, concrètes, efficaces.
FAM HV 6626.54 .R62 2005
Le secret du petit cheval -- Ottawa: Ministry of Supply and Services, 1989.
Ce livre fait comprendre aux enfants la différence entre un bon secret et un secret qui porte sur
l'exploitation sexuelle.
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The secret of the silver horse -- Ottawa: Ministry of Supply and Services, 1989.
Children are shown the difference between a good secret and a secret about sexual abuse. They
are also shown the difference between good touching and sexually abusive touching. Appropriate
for ages 5-8 years.
FAM HV 6626.54 .S42
Si votre enfant est victime d'exploitation sexuelle... : guide pour les parents d'enfants victimes
d'exploitation par une personne étrangère a la famille / Ensom, Ron. -- Ottawa: OCCCCA,
1994.
Guide pour les parents d'enfants victimes d'exploitation sexuelle par une personne étrangère à la
famille.
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Trauma / Traumatisme
Children and trauma: a parent's guide to helping children heal / Monahon, Cynthia -- New York:
Lexington Books, 1993.
Childhood traumas range widely in their severity and impact. Being in a car accident, experiencing
an earthquake or flood, being attacked by a dog, being molested, or witnessing a violent robbery all are distinctly different events, yet all give rise to the same symptoms of psychological trauma.
This is a guide written for parents of the thousands of children terrorized by accidents, disasters or
violence each year.
FAM RJ 506 .P66 M66
Les traumatismes infantiles / Markham, Ursula -- Paris: Éditions J'ai Lu, 2001.
L’auteur, psychothérapeute spécialiste de l’hypnose, explique que nos peurs ou problèmes
actuels sont la conséquence directe d’un traumatisme infantile : que ce soit une agression
délibérée, psychologique, émotionnelle ou physique, ou un traumatisme involontaire, dans
tous les cas, le résultat est le même : la perte du respect de soi. L’essentiel est d’en prendre
conscience pour surmonter l’angoisse et d’appréhender l’avenir avec confiance.
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A safe place for Caleb: an interactive book for kids, teens and adults with issues of attachment,
grief, loss or early trauma / Chara, Kathleen A. -- London: Jessica Kinsley Publishers, 2005.
Based on established psychological principles, the book is an imaginative and unique guide for
professionals, parents, caregivers, and people of all ages who are dealing with attachment issues.
FAM RJ 506 .P66 C52 2005
Web Sites / Sites internet
Sexual Assault - CHEO / Agressions sexuelle - CHEO
http://www.cheo.on.ca/en/sexualassault
Canadian Centre for Child Protection / Centre canadien de protection de l’enfance
https://protectchildren.ca/app/en/
Child Abuse – MedlinePlus from the US National Library of Medicine
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/childabuse.html
Child Sexual Abuse – MedlinePlus from the US National Library of Medicine
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/childsexualabuse.html
Types of Traumatic Stress – NCTSN – The National Child Traumatic Stress Network
http://www.nctsn.org/trauma-types/early-childhood-trauma
Kids Health – Information for Kids, Teens and Parents from the Nemours Foundation
http://www.kidshealth.org
Kids Help Phone / Jeunesse J’écoute
http://kidshelpphone.ca/Teens/home.aspx
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Arrêtons la violence familiale – Agence de santé publique du Canada / Stop Family Violence - Public
Health Agency of Canada
http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/ncfv-cnivf/index-fra.php
Just for you: Parents – Health Canada / Spécialement pour vous: parents - Santé Canada
http://www.hc-sc.gc.ca/hl-vs/jfy-spv/parents-eng.php#b
Stop it Now! Together we can Prevent the Sexual Abuse of Children
http://www.stopitnow.org/
Apps
Always There / Toujours à l’écoute
● From Kids Help Phone / Jeunesse j’écoute
● Free / Gratuit
● English and French / anglais et français
● Last updated April 2016 / Dernière mise-à-jour 2016 avril
● The Kids Help Phone app provides a password protected space for you to log your feelings during the
day, as well as youth-submitted inspirational quotes, tips on taking care of yourself, and jokes aimed at
helping you cope with stress. The Info Booth has lots of information on emotional health topics and more.
Finally, the app can also connect you directly with a Kids Help Phone counsellor over the phone, or during
certain hours, Live Chat. / L’application Toujours à l’écoute offre un espace protégé par mot de passe pour
recueillir tes émotions au courant de la journée, et pour accéder à des pensées inspirantes, des conseils
pour prendre soin de toi et des blagues qui ont le but de t’aider à gérer le stress. Le kiosque d’info offre
beaucoup d’information sur la santé émotionnelle ainsi que d’autres sujets. Enfin, l’application peut
également te connecter directement avec un intervenant de Jeunesse J’écoute par téléphone, ou à notre
service de clavardage pendant ses heures d’ouverture.
● Available from / Disponible depuis Google Play & iTunes
Local Contacts / Liaison régionales
CHEO Sexual Assault Program / Programme d’agression sexuelle CHEO
613-737-2328
Youth Service Bureau of Ottawa / Bureau des services à la jeunesse d’Ottawa
2675 Queensview Drive
Ottawa, ON K2B 8K2
Head Office - 613-729-1000
[email protected]
http://www.ysb.ca/
YSB’s 24/7 Crisis Line
613-260-2360
877-377-7775
[email protected]
Crisis Chat-Website: chat.ysb.ca - Hours: Thursday to Sunday, 4 pm - 10 pm / Clavardage en direct : de
jeudi à dimanche, de 16 h à 22 h
http://www.ysb.ca/index.php?page=24-7-crisis-line&hl=eng
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Child, Youth and Family Crisis Line for Eastern Ontario / Ligne de crise pour enfants, jeunes et familles de
l’Est de l’Ontario
http://www.icrs.ca/
613-260-2360
877-377-7775
For general enquiries / Pour les renseignements généraux [email protected].
Kid’s Help Phone / Jeunesse J’écoute
800-668-6868
http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/teens/home/splash.aspx
Assaulted Women's Helpline
http://www.awhl.org/
Tel: 866-863-0511
TTY: 866-863-7868
Rogers, Fido, Bell, & Telus #7233 (SAFE) on your mobile phone - 24 hours, confidential, multiple
languages including 17 Aboriginal languages
This guide provides medical material for information purposes only and is not intended to replace
the advice of your physician. The information may not always apply to your individual situation.
The guide represents material available in the Family Resource Library collection at CHEO. It is not
intended to be an exhaustive list. Your local public library may also be able to provide you with
information.
If you require materials in alternative formats, please contact the library at 613-737-7600 ext. 2157
or at [email protected].
Ce guide fournit du matériel médical pour informations seulement et ne vise pas à remplacer les
conseils du médecin. Ces informations pourraient ne pas toujours s'appliquer aux situations
individuelles.
Ce guide présente le matériel disponible à la bibliothèque de ressources familiales du CHEO. Ce
n'est pas une liste complète. Votre bibliothèque publique locale pourrait aussi être en mesure de
vous fournir des informations précieuses.
Si vous avez besoin des documents en formats alternatifs, s’il vous plaît contacter la bibliothèque au
613-737-7600 poste 2157 ou à [email protected].
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